26 September 1995
                                                Revised 31 March 1998



    RI-269Ri  'How to Handle Irresponsible People  (GOLD!)'


from Ambassador for Mankind


Message # RI-269Ri for Internet

(Also to be issued in the 'Understanding Suppression Series'
  at http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/usp.htm)




A Suppressive Person is someone
 who does not want to remedy
  the damage he has done to others in the past.



He does not want to in the present
 take steps or actions to remedy the actions
  he did in the past to others.
Therefore he wants to hide, in the present,
 what he did to others in the past.

If he does 'not know it' in the present, and
 if others in the present don't look at it,
   then he does not have to remedy what he did in the past
    and he feels fine and happy and outflowing
    and he can love people.


This is one of the motives a Suppressive Person has
 in order to remain a Suppressive Person.
This is one of the motives an anti-social person has
 for remaining anti-social.
This is one of the motives an irresponsible person has
 for remaining irresponsible.



When he is reminded of the damage he did to others
 in the past,
   he feels very bad and incapable of acting and
    incapable of having any love for people, in the present.

Therefore he tells you,
 that you 'should not remind him'
  of the damage he did to others in the past.

And he is willing to
 get extremely angry and
 extremely violent and
 extremely insane and
 destructive and damaging
  to others in the present,
    in order to prevent himself from being reminded
     of the damage he did to others in the past.



The very simple truth of it,
  which you should know about
   suppressive,
   anti-social and
   irresponsible people,
 is that
  THEY IN THE PRESENT
   DO NOT WANT TO REMEDY THE DAMAGE
    THEY DID TO OTHERS IN THE PAST.



This is a VERY workable definition apparently,
 because it opens up the improvement and remedy of Suppressives
  and anti-social and irresponsible people,
 where before they never had lasting benefits from
  any efforts to remedy their insanity and irresponsibility.


If you would keep asking them
  "What would you have to do NOW
    in order to remedy the damage
     you have done in the past to others?"
 you would break through the eternal trap
  which the suppressive, anti-social and irresponsible person
   keeps himself in.



This is, by the way,
 how one CORRECTLY changes enemies into friends.

(See next RI-Bulletins [after RI-269Ri] for real life accounts
  of how to turn enemies into friends
   with the use of this principle.)




Koos Nolst Trenite - Ambassador for Mankind

Copyright 1995, 1998 by Koos Nolst Trenite



Personal Web-page:
  http://ArtOrg.com


Library of Ambassador for Mankind:
  http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/

Library Search Engine:
  http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/search.html


The 'Understanding Suppression Series':
  http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/usp.htm



References (available also at the Library "http://Art-Org.com/"):

- About sanity

  RI-1022i 'The Purpose of Life' of 26 Sept 97, of 19 Mar 98

  RI-449i  'A Rule For Freedom' of 14 Jan 1996
  RI-537i  'The Right to Demand Awareness' of 15 Apr 1996
  RI-714i  'State of Sanity, Definition of' of 24 Oct 1996

  RI-929i  'Simple Detection: "Sane or Insane?"' of 11 Sept 1997
  RI-926i  'I do not respect the right of others to be insane' of 19 Aug 1997
  RI-974i  'Truth about "Not putting attention on evil of others"' 27 Nov 97


- About confronting and understanding evil and Suppressive Persons

  RI-1021i 'A Basic of Insanity - On Remedying Criminality' 19 Mar 98

  RI-908i  'The Ostrich-factor - on facing evil or criminality' 16 July 97
  RI-024i  'Definition of "Potential Trouble Source" - IMPORTANT' 19 Nov 94

  RI-058Ri 'Fair Game Series - Treatment of Enemies' of 1 Jan 1995
  RI-487i  'Dialogue: On Enemies and Hostility' of 20 Feb 1996
  RI-535i  '"An Enemy of my Enemy is my Friend" = INSANE' 10 Apr 96

  RI-1007i 'How a Suppressive Person becomes so - How to remedy' of 27 Feb 98
  RI-1004i 'Affected by another's evil intentions. Getting out of being -'

  RI-987i  'Making a World of Spiritual Sanity and Freedom' of 26 Dec 1997
  RI-646i  'FACING those who are mean or dishonest' of 31 July 1996
  RI-262i  'Creating despite Suppressive Persons' of 20 Aug 1995


- About RI-Bulletins

  RI-380Ri 'Obtaining Truth from the RI-Bulletins' of 1 Nov 1995
  RI-50RQi 'RI-xxxi series Archive - Content and Use' 28 Dec 94
               Revised and Replaced on 6 March 1996


These references and other RI-Bulletins can well be obtained here - or

    at the Library of Koos' writings on
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/usp.htm
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/telepathy.htm

    or at the Archives at
         ftp://thetics.europa.com/outgoing/adams/RI
         ftp://thetics.europa.com/outgoing/adams/RI/USP