1 November 1997
                                         issued and edited 9 Nov 1997


     RI-962i  'The Master Path to Life - Platonism understood'


from Ambassador for Mankind


Message # RI-962i for Internet




The first thing is
 to establish Affinity, spiritual liking that is,
  with oneself, with others and with one's environment,
   and
 to keep up that Affinity or spiritual liking


        NO MATTER WHAT REALITY ONE ENCOUNTERS
         IN ONESELF, IN OTHERS, AND IN ONE's ENVIRONMENT
           AS A RESULT OF ESTABLISHING AND MAINTAINING (KEEPING UP)
            ONE's AFFINITY
             FOR ONESELF, FOR OTHERS AND FOR ONE's ENVIRONMENT,

       NO MATTER WHAT COMMUNICATION ONE GETS
          FROM ONESELF, FROM OTHERS, AND FROM ONE's ENVIRONMENT
            AS A RESULT OF ESTABLISHING AND MAINTAINING (KEEPING UP)
             ONE's COMMUNICATION
              WITH ONESELF, WITH OTHERS AND WITH ONE's ENVIRONMENT,

       NO MATTER WHAT CORRECT OR FALSE UNDERSTANDING ONE ENCOUNTERS
          ABOUT OR FROM ONESELF, ABOUT OR FROM OTHERS, AND
          ABOUT OR FROM ONE's ENVIRONMENT
            AS A RESULT OF ESTABLISHING AND MAINTAINING (KEEPING UP)
             ONE's UNDERSTANDING
              ABOUT ONESELF, ABOUT OTHERS AND ABOUT ONE's ENVIRONMENT.




The ability and willingness
 to generate and maintain that kind of Affinity or spiritual liking
  for oneself, for others, and for one's environment,
    is what describes the first step.

WITHOUT such a kind of spiritual liking
 for oneself and for others and for one's environment,
  one travels the path of spiritual death
    - which we don't want to travel and
      which we don't want others to enforce on us either.


The usual sequence is
 to establish and maintain
   Affinity for ONE's ENVIRONMENT (with the above described
     'no matter what is there or what happens' present),
  then
 to establish and maintain
   Affinity for OTHERS (with the above described
     'no matter what is there or what happens' present),
  and then
 to establish and maintain
   Affinity for ONESELF (with the above described
     'no matter what is there or what happens' present).

Usually, one cycles through that:
  Increase Affinity for one's environment,
  increase Affinity for others,
  increase Affinity for oneself,
   again
  increase Affinity for one's environment,
  increase Affinity for others,
  etc.


The environment is a reference-point,
 that is why one takes it first.
  It is a stable point, it provides a 'NOW'.
  It is easily observable for most people.
 You can and should establish
  what is happening NOW,
  what thoughts and intentions are there NOW,
    and then you can relate the past to that reference point.



Some people start at
 generating and maintaining Affinity for themselves
  - and leave off there.
     These people are easily recognized.


Some people only
 generate and maintain Affinity for their environment,
   and become fixed on possessions, as if that is the game of life.
    They are considered "successful people", by some.


Some people stay at
 generating and maintaining Affinity for others,
   and they may become Saints.




But there is more to life than that.

We want to generate and maintain
 this special kind of Affinity (with the above described
    'no matter what is there or what happens' present),
  for all three of these things:
      For oneself AND for others AND for one's environment.






And that is only the FIRST STEP.

This first step is necessary, it is vital
 because
  without it one goes into the path of
    "living successfully" at the expense of life,
  without it one follows the path of
    fascism, dictatorship, domination and finally spiritual death,
     no matter how "successfully" one lives.






Now, why does love hurt?

Here we get the other factors that are missing.
 When love or Affinity, spiritual liking,
  hurts,
    Reality is
      missing or
      too much off and away
       from what is really there, and
    Communication is
      missing or
      far too little, and
    Understanding is
      missing or
      considerably lacking and
      perverted or
      misdirected.



But with the first step you have achieved
  to maintain Affinity
    no matter what is there, and
  to maintain Affinity, spiritual liking,
    despite
      all attempts to inhibit and betray your Affinity and
    despite
      "reasons"
        that you have agreed with
         to make it normal (or an automatic response)
          to withdraw your Affinity from a part of life or from some person.







The SECOND step is
 to generate and maintain - while maintaining Affinity -
   the curiosity TO FIND OUT
    Realities about yourself, about others, about your environment.
      NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS AS A RESULT OF
       YOUR CURIOSITY AND DISCOVERY.

And Reality means here
 spiritual Reality of what is there,
   a Reality also when it is hidden, and not agreed upon,
   but ANYTHING THAT IS THERE:
      Whether visible,
       thought,
       wanted,
       intended and done or not,
       and especially when hidden.

Realities about yourself hidden from you by others,
 Realities (both the good ones and the not so good ones)
  about yourself hidden from you by yourself.

The same thing about your Reality of others.

The same thing about your Reality of your environment.



The next (THIRD) step is
 to generate and maintain Communication
   with yourself (with your abilities, for instance
    but also, not less importantly, with your disabilities), and
   with others, and
   with your environment.

And this again
 NO MATTER WHAT YOU SEE AND
 NO MATTER WHAT EFFORTS YOU MEET OF OTHERS
  TO BLIND YOUR SIGHT AND EFFORTS OF OTHERS
  TO DESTROY THE COMMUNICATION OF YOUR OBSERVATIONS.





And when one has mastered these steps,
 one is on a higher level of life
  - AND HOW HIGH, THAT IS ENTIRELY DEPENDING, of course, ON
     WHERE (ON WHAT LEVEL OF LIFE) ONE STARTED OFF.

(Some 'perfectly normal' people
  are below an awareness
   that there EXISTS such a thing as spiritual liking.
 They cannot recognize it
  when someone has spiritual liking of Affinity for them.
 It is not even a desirable quality for them
  because such a thing 'does not exist'
   in their world of experience,
    in their present state.)




Now, from a higher level,
 one again does the Affinity step,
  then the Reality step,
  then the Communication step.



And one becomes more and more a Master of Life.






Now, HOW one best carries out these steps,
 what TOOLS one uses for it,
   that's a matter of taste, of culture,
    of education and of level of civilization.

One can do the three steps
 of Affinity, Reality, Communication,
  and then again do them on a higher level,
    one can do them in ANY culture,
     on ANY level of education or civilization.

One does not even have to be able to read and write to do it.





I wrote down a few tools
 that can assist the Mastery of life,
  and they can be found in the Library.

But they are just tools.

Others prefer or are educated in
 or have already gained confidence in
  THEIR use of other tools,
    and they can use those tools
     to do the steps of the Master Path of Life.



Koos Nolst Trenite - Ambassador for Mankind

Copyright 1997 by Koos Nolst Trenite



Additional Note One:

Sometimes someone tries to bump you off the path,
 and he succeeds temporarily to break you down.

You just pick up again
 FROM THE LEVEL YOU DROPPED DOWN TO,
  and you work yourself up again.


Or in case you are assisting someone else,
 you get him to look and see
  WHAT LEVEL HE DROPPED DOWN TO,
   because he will have to start
    from his ACTUAL level of Affinity
      for himself, for others and for his environment,
    from his ACTUAL level of Reality
      about his present state, and the present state of others,
       and the present state of his environment,
     IN ORDER TO GET BACK UP.

When one takes it up from a pretended high level,
  (and the same applies to a pretended low level)
 one won't stably get back up,
  but have only short-lived high-ups, and long-lived deep-downs.



Additional Note Two:

I don't want to say that I am very high on this Path,
 but I am probably higher than many of you
   on the first step of maintaining
    Affinity for all that is there no matter what is there,
 and I am working very hard since 30 years
   on increasing my Reality
    about all the mind-baffling things that are there in people,
 and I am slowly picking up again on Communication.



Koos Nolst Trenite - Ambassador for Mankind

Copyright 1997 by Koos Nolst Trenite



Personal Web-page:
  http://ArtOrg.com

Personal Web-Library:
  http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/

Library Search Engine:
  http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/search.html



References (available also at the Library "http://Art-Org.com"):

- About Affinity

  RI-925i  'Restoring life-force - Affinity for who and what IS THERE' Aug 97
  RI-713i  'Handling Attacks Correctly - Space and Love' of 18 Oct 1996


- About Reality

  RI-252i-A 'Definition of Reality' of 5 Aug 1995
  USP-058 'Doing as if reality does not exist' of 5 May 1994
  USP-055 '"Looking at reality of others is deadly"' of 14 Apr 1994
  USP-035 'Destroying all reality of the past' of 10 Feb 1994


- About Communication

  RI-785i  'On Not Remedying Disagreements - "Not Talking"' of 24 Jan 1997

  RI-568i  'Correct and Joyful Confessional Procedure - IV' of 14 June 1997
  RI-545i  'Correct and Joyful Confessional Procedure - III' 20 May 1996
  RI-542i  'Correct and Joyful Confessional Procedure - II' 2 May 1996
  RI-541i  'Correct and Joyful Confessional Procedure - I' 20 Apr 1996
  RI-514Ri 'Confessionals and Blackmail - VERY IMPORTANT' updated 17 June 97

  RI-956i  'Jutta: Validating Evil by NOT communicating about it' 25 Aug 97
  RI-955i  'Jutta: DENYING COMMUNICATION about sorrow, fear, pain or evil'

  RI-896i  'Telepathy - Questions about getting in communication' 21 June 97
  http://Art-Org.com/ri-bulletins/telepathy.htm


- About rehabilitation of Spiritual Power

  RI-918i 'Spiritual Power defined correctly' of 4 Aug 1997
  RI-919i 'Who Destroys your Spiritual Power - Scale of Recognizable Actions'


- About sanity

  RI-449i  'A Rule For Freedom' of 14 Jan 1996
  RI-537i  'The Right to Demand Awareness' of 15 Apr 1996
  RI-714i  'State of Sanity, Definition of' of 24 Oct 1996

  RI-929i  'Simple Detection: "Sane or Insane?"' of 11 Sept 1997


- About understanding and helping people

  RI-629i  'Definition of "Care"' of 12 July 1996
  RI-602i  'Definition of Power' of 20 June 1996

  RI-631i  'Definition of "Woman"' of 12 July 1996
  RI-592i  'How To Look At People' of 5 June 1996

  RI-801i  '"You can never leave" - The spiritual universe' of 14 Mar 1997

  RI-705i  'Society Resurgence, Use of Rules' of 9 Oct 1996
  RI-750i  'Crimes are not motivated by money' of 1 Dec 1996

  RI-734i  'Orienting Children' of 13 Nov 1996
  RI-781BPI 'Raising Children - or Keeping Them Small?' of 16 Jan 1997


- About confronting and understanding evil and Suppressive Persons

  The 'Understanding Suppression Series':
   http://Art-Org.com/ri-bulletins/usp.htm

  RI-908i  'The Ostrich-factor - on facing evil or criminality' 16 July 97
  RI-010i  'Confronting a Suppressive' of 12 Oct 1994

  RI-058Ri 'Fair Game Series - Treatment of Enemies' of 1 Jan 1995
  RI-487i  'Dialogue: On Enemies and Hostility' of 20 Feb 1996
  RI-535i  '"An Enemy of my Enemy is my Friend" = INSANE' 10 Apr 96

  RI-646i  'FACING those who are mean or dishonest' of 31 July 1996
  RI-262i  'Creating despite Suppressive Persons' of 20 Aug 1995

  RI-024i  'Definition of "Potential Trouble Source" - IMPORTANT' 19 Nov 94


- About Art, and Religion

  RI-019Ri 'Artists and Ethics' of 10 Sept 1992
  RI-704Ri 'Real Art is not hard to understand' of 30 Sept 1996

  RI-738Si 'Christianity - Love, and Guilt solved' of 22 Dec 1996
  RI-379Ri 'Religious Tolerance' of 1 Nov 1995


- About RI-Bulletins

  RI-380Ri 'Obtaining Truth from the RI-Bulletins' of 1 Nov 1995
  RI-50RQi 'RI-xxxi series Archive - Content and Use' 28 Dec 94
               Revised and Replaced on 6 March 1996


These references and other RI-Bulletins can well be obtained here - or

    at the Library of Koos' writings on
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/usp.htm
         http://AmbassadorForMankind.org/ri-bulletins/telepathy.htm

    or at the Archives at
         ftp://thetics.europa.com/outgoing/adams/RI
         ftp://thetics.europa.com/outgoing/adams/RI/USP




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