14 April 1994
                                                 Issued 25 March 1997


     USP-055  '"Looking at reality of others is deadly"'


Understanding Suppression Series # 55

(See Footnote for understanding)



One of many definitions of 'Suppressive Person':

Someone who "knows" he will BECOME insane if he really looks at
someone else.

It escapes him totally that he IS already insane, and that he only
will become sane when he DOES start to really look at someone else.

Again, the Suppressive Person has it all in reverse.


Very mild versions of this are "Business and friends don't mix." This
is a form of "In order to bring about survival for myself, I must NOT
look at what I do to others."

Very idiotic, because the better you look at what a buyer wants and
likes and dislikes, the easier it is to sell to him, and the easier
it is to see whether it is a waste of time and money to approach him.

Also, doing business with someone you can trust and who tells you
about any of his difficulties accurately, in other words, with a
friend, is much safer than doing business with an enemy!


The Suppressive Person is afraid that when he really looks at someone
else's reality, he will have to accept and take over that reality.

He once thought that he DID look at another's reality - but he did
not look at the whole reality of someone, only at the pretended
reality that someone put out for him to see.
And so he was defenceless against the reality that was hidden from
him. (The most common example is being betrayed - which is being
overwhelmed by another's hidden and harmful reality.)

And now he says that it's no use - and even dangerous - to look at
someone else's reality.
No, it's dangerous to look at someone's pretended reality only, and
to accept that as the whole truth about a person.


I never accept a pretended reality as the whole truth about a person:
"He is a Suppressive Person" as the whole truth about a person is
also idiotic.
"He has become a Suppressive Person" can be an accurate statement
about someone's present condition.

The condition of being a Suppressive Person is itself a pretended
reality about himself, put out by and believed by the Suppressive
as "being himself".
It is not himself. He is someone who has lost the ability to be
himself.



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Footnote:

You can't have or maintain good without understanding evil.

NONE of the present sciences, therapies and religions, and
none of the "-isms" or "-ologies" of today understand evil
or suppression.

Yet they have abundant - and sometimes very expensive -
recipes for "being good forever". Even when they claim to
understand evil, they want to be unaware of and hide their
own evil and so they become evil themselves, and they meet
evil with evil in order "to defend themselves or their group".

It is not possible to handle properly someone who is evil or
something that is evil WITHOUT understanding WHAT PRECISELY
you are handling.

YOU CAN'T HANDLE AN EVIL BEING, FOR INSTANCE, UNLESS YOU
UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE HANDLING A BEING, AND THAT YOU ARE
HELPING HIM - A BEING - TO CONTROL HIS EVIL.

The Understanding Suppression Series will help you - maybe
for the first time - to understand evil well enough in order
to maintain good. I have taken care to write as easy to
understand as possible. The Series starts out very simple,
and currently consists of about 150 separate observations.

Keeping this knowledge to yourself will not maintain good
- because others, lacking understanding of evil, will
unintentionally assist evil - but you sharing this knowledge
with others WILL make you win over evil, and WILL safeguard
good.

                                    Koos Nolst Trenite